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  • Nov. 25th, 2009 at 12:35 PM
Hobbs
Our family lawyer stopped by for a consultation and has directed me to a more skilled lawyer in the field of Employment Discrimination; yupper, I going after Staples for terminating my employment.

Filed for unemployment and have already arranged a job interview in Ottawa, Canada with a software company; dual citizenship has it privileges. Probably will commute home to Rochester on weekends until the need to put down permanent roots takes over.

Off to Toronto for MLT (Mister Leather Toronto), The TNTmen nude party, visiting dad and taking him to a medical appointment; Leather Sale at MLT on Saturday afternoon and hopefully some good sling time with my date. I know my host in the city is looking to play too.

Let's see, Men, Leather, Kink, Slings, Nude Men, Kink, Leather.......yup, sounds like a productive weekend to me........*grins*

Happy Thanksgivings One and All.

Now I have time on my hands.........

  • Nov. 21st, 2009 at 5:16 AM

The initial shock has worn off a bit; the anger has eased; frustration at not being able to punch my former boss in the mouth has passed; counting my blessings instead has calmed my inner spirit; Leather Family including new members Lady Adrian and her boy Oliver have surrounded me with positive energy, support, options, love, and refuse to let me beat myself up.................
Why all of this??? I was terminated from my job because they deemed a website that I visited on my lunch break was inappropriate. I have only be going to this website for 5 years of employment without incident but they suddenly decided that I violated the Company's Electronic's Policy and the Harassment Policy. No final warning; no lecture; just let go.
My lawyer is visiting me on Tuesday; yes she says, we have a case of wrongful dismissal. Do I want to return to work there??? Hell no; not going to deal with the public any more in any position; not paid enough to deal with the abuse.

Now I have to decide where I will live as my options for job hunting are wide open although, SIR and Slave Dog Blue really want me to relocate to Ottawa or at least closer to them. Hubby David has openly stated that home is where the heart is and he will move to wherever my job is. Yes, we have worked out our marital and kink issues and will remain together until death do us part.

Let the job search begin..............

Copy of email sent by LJ FuzzBearMark

  • Oct. 27th, 2009 at 1:39 PM
Sir Boy Survival
Hello everyone,

A lot of things are going on behind the scenes regarding the Eagle, here's a quick update:

-An official raid website is up and contains accurate information, please re-post this link to help get the word out: http://www.atlantaeagleraid.com/

-Please encourage anyone present during the raid to contact attorney Dan Grossman to discuss their rights and legal options: AtlantaEagleLawyer@gmail.com, (404) 654-0326
People can remain ANONYMOUS and still exercise their rights, please help get that information out to the community at large.

-The staff will be in court on November 3rd to address the permit and license charges, and community members are encouraged to attend the hearing in support. If these unjust charges are not dropped, community members are prepared to hold a demonstration in response.

-Project Q has an article highlighting the discrepancies in procedures with the Eagle raid versus the most recent APD raid:
http://www.projectqatlanta.com/news_articles/view/Police_changing_tactics_in_wake_of_Eagle_raid/

-The controversy about APD LGBT Liaison, Officer Dani Harris, is still pressing topic of conversation. Mike Alvear, of David Magazine and The Huffington Post, has some very honest thoughts about the Atlanta Pride Committee not fully addressing the impact (or lack thereof) the raid on the Eagle raid is having on Pride this year:
http://www.mikealvear.com/2009/10/26/atlanta-pride-committee-throws-eagle-raid-victims-under-the-bus/

The battle for justice for the Eagle staff and patrons is far from over. They need community support to stay strong!

Keep writing and calling Atlanta officials, LGBT organizations, and the press to voice concern that Eagle keep getting coverage and ultimately receive justice. Contact info can be found at http://web.mac.com/connectatlanta

Peace,

Rules of the Spa aka Bath House Etiquette

  • Oct. 25th, 2009 at 7:36 PM
Don't assume
People wearing jockstraps tend to make it with other people wearing jockstraps.  Nobody makes it with people wearing pink bikinis.

You can have a heart attack fucking in the whirlpool.

It is extremely hazardous to your health to attempt to inhale poppers while under water.

Saying "I'm resting" to everyone who seeks entry into your room defeats the purpose of going to the baths.

If everyone who said "I don't come here often" was telling the truth, there would be no one there.

Those who lay naked on their stomachs with their asses in the air remind one of electric pencil sharpeners.

Conversations in the orgy room should be kept to a minimum. Grunts, groans, notices that "I'm coming," and invitations to do it in a room instead are acceptable; discussions of the weather, ex-lovers, favorite lubricants, the quality of the darkness, and the pros and cons of cockrings are not.

If you are looking for a wonderfully spiritual union with a kindred spirit, you are in the wrong place.

Do not assume that the guys walking into walls are on some weird new drug; most likely, they have just left their glasses in their lockers. It is better to look good than to see good.

Once in a while, do your good deed for the gay: let an old troll suck your cock. Such magnanimous gestures are duly recorded by the Great Faggot in the Sky, and when you are an old troll, the favors will be returned in kind. Yes, Virginia, that's the way it works.

Please realize that bathrooms, even those at the tubs, do have legitimate purposes. Giving someone a blowjob in a cubicle while outside the locked door seven guys are turning various shades of green will not make you popular.

If you are tempted to wear a Lacoste shirt with your towel, understand that many people would find it a capital offense.

Finish what you start.

If you see a man in a room with a can of Crisco, a thick belt, and a bottle of poppers neatly arrayed on the little table, before entering, be certain you know the purpose of all three items.

When it's past the wrist is not the time to say "no".

It's okay to bring your own rope; it's not okay to tie yourself up.

Spending seventy-two consecutive hours at the tubs will neither destroy your reputation nor greatly enhance it.

If you are at the baths busily cheating on your lover, don't make a scene should you discover him there.

People who say, "I've never done that before," should be informed that the ability to deep throat is not genetic.

Those who lose the keys to their rooms or lockers are never heard from again.

The law of increasing good looks: People tend to become more attractive the longer you are there.

In the dark all cats are gray, but ten inches is still better than six inches.

Men with small cocks can be sexually tremendous if they are technically proficient, but men with big dicks don't have to know a damn thing.

Doing it for England is as valid a reason for doing it as any.

A primitive tribe in Borneo does not have a word for "no" in its language. Natives deny sexual favors by looking mournful and saying, "I'd like to, but I just came."

After you've been fucked by twelve guys in the orgy room, you will never again convince anyone with your coy routine.

Asking to borrow someone's cockring is even more tasteless than asking to borrow someone's comb.

Law of maximum discomfort: When they call your room number or locker number to the front desk you will inevitably be in a position impossible to get out of quickly without seriously injuring yourself.

You can cause a panic by yelling, "There's a man in room 379!"

For a real hoot, go to the baths without having used alcohol or drugs. It is truly amazing how fabulously you will be able to make out when you are the only one there in a solid state.

Giggling is not a correct response to, "Wanna fuck?"

If you can remember the title of the porno movie that was showing in the "rest section", you did not have a good time.

It is pointless to consider why guys who won't even talk to you at the bars are so eager to suck your cock at the baths.

Spending more than two hours with one number at the baths makes you two "an item." More than four hours makes you engaged. On a good night, it is possible to commit bigamy.

For some unknown reason, it is considered embarrassing to make it with someone you already know.

No one ever believes the line, "We're really not lovers."

At all times, remember that tubbing is a participation, not a spectator sport.

Spending hours deciding what to wear to the tubs is a particularly inane waste of time.

Never try to explain the baths to heterosexuals.

Possession of more than three bath cards makes you a serious faggot.

Georgina's law of the weight room: People working out are doing it for your benefit, not theirs.

Formal attire means a black jockstrap.

Contrary to popular belief, one can indeed be too clean.

You can never be too rich, too muscular, or have too big of a dick.

Believe it or not, it is possible to have good sex without using poppers. A man in New Jersey claims to do it all the time.

And those are the Rules Of The Baths.
Use them wisely and pass the knowledge along to those newcomers who may need it.


Reprinted with permission from FLEX BATHS

and the flu goes on.......

  • Oct. 25th, 2009 at 12:28 PM
Party
Fighting the flu for the last few weeks has just about drove me nuts as I was stupid enough to keep working during it. One day upbeat and two days fever, trots, etc; slept 18 hours between yesterday and 10 am this morning; back to normal.

Heading out on motorcycle today as this will probably one of the last days for riding before it is Storage time; sigh.....where did the summer go????

Weight loss is back on track; doctor is pleased with all the results.

Have finally discovered the joys of HandBalling; two incredible gentlemen have given me the most incredible pleasure; more details to follow as I explore this part of my sexuality further.

Off on the motorcycle; I need the outing............

Update: Ride was incredible.

Took David H. for along for the ride along the lake with a stop at a bar for a beer and a burger; it was strange as both the beer and the burger seemed to have no taste to me. Oh well, the ride and companionship made the few hours fly by.

Tired now but feel I may have pushed it a bit; no matter, will pray that week's work load isn't massive.

Batteries are almost back to normal.

  • Oct. 17th, 2009 at 6:10 PM
Momma Bear
I'm back after a self-imposed sabbatical; needed time to put my life into a more functional order; cast off the garbage and refocus my energies into more positive projects.

Met a lot of jerks along the way but even they can teach you something about yourself or about certain types of people; take the positive from it and dump the negative. Learned that true friendship and trust comes from the actions of the person, not the word games they utter. A man takes account for his actions without using his Master as a mouth piece.

Had my bout of H1N1 or something damn near close to it; hate being sick. Praying that this was the one and only time that I have to go through it.

Today is the 1 Year Anniversary of the death of David's father Carl after a heroic fight with Parkinson's Disease (nasty little condition to get); we hope Carl has found peace and has reconnected with his beloved wife Mildred.

So much to blog about regarding the travels I've had and the journeys yet to be. The best is yet to come.

Here is a little something I remember from my childhood; father used to sing it every now and then.

Leather Laughter Winning
The Pope and Nancy Pelosi are on the same stage in front of a huge crowd.

The Pope leans towards Mrs. Pelosi and said, "Do you know that with one little wave of my hand I can make every person in this crowd go wild with joy? This joy will not be a momentary display, like that of your followers, but go deep into their hearts and they'll forever speak of this day and rejoice!"

Pelosi replied, "I seriously doubt that. With one little wave of your hand? Show me"

So the Pope backhanded her.

No Country for Sick Men
To judge the content of a nation's character, look no further than its health-care system.

"Us Canadians, we're kind of understated by nature," Marcus Davies told me in his soft-spoken way. "We don't go around chanting 'We're No. 1!' But you know, there are two areas where we feel superior to the U.S.: hockey and health care."


Davies is an official of the Saskatchewan Medical Society, so it's not surprising that he would want to extol Canadian medicine. But that feeling of patriotic pride in the nation's health-care system is something that just about all Canadians share. They love to point out that Canada provides coverage for everybody, usually with no copay and no deductible—while the U.S. leaves tens of millions of its citizens uninsured. They love to remind us that, while the U.S. lets some 700,000 people go bankrupt due to medical bills each year, the number of medical bankruptcies in Canada is precisely zero.

Yet I wasn't inclined to let Davies go unchallenged. I agreed that Canada does an admirable job of providing free and prompt care to anybody with an acute medical condition. But for nonemergency cases, the system often provides nothing but a long wait. Last summer I tried to get an appointment with an orthopedist in Canada to treat my aching right shoulder; the waiting time, just for an initial consultation, was 10 months. How could you be proud of that?

"You're right," Davies said frankly. "We keep people waiting, to limit costs. But you have to understand something basic about Canadians. Canadians don't mind waiting for elective care all that much, so long as the rich Canadian and the poor Canadian have to wait about the same amount of time."

In that last sentence, Davies set forth the national ethic of health care in his country: medicine is not a commodity to be sold to the highest bidder, but a right that must be distributed equitably to one and all. In short, the Canadians have built a health-care system that neatly fits the Canadian character: ferociously egalitarian, but thrifty at the same time.

I found that same pattern—a health-care system that reflects a nation's basic cultural values—everywhere I went when I traveled the world for a PBS documentary and a book about how other wealthy countries provide health care. "The fundamental truth about health care in every country," notes Princeton professor Uwe Reinhardt, one of the world's preeminent health-care economists, "is that national values, national character, determine how each system works."

The design of any country's health-care system involves political, medical, and economic decisions. But the primary issue for any health-care system is, as President Obama made clear last week, a moral question: should a rich society provide health care to everyone who needs it? If a nation answers yes to that moral question, it will build a health-care system like the ones in Britain, Germany, Canada, France, and Japan, where everybody is covered. If a nation doesn't decide to provide universal coverage, then you're likely to end up with a system where some people get the finest medical care on earth in the finest hospitals, and tens of thousands of others are left to die for lack of care. Without the moral commitment, in other words, you end up with a system like America's.

Around the world, cultural influences govern much of the nitty-gritty of daily medical practice. In the Confucian nations of East Asia, doctors were traditionally expected to treat people for free; they earned a living by selling medicine to be taken once the patient went home. To this day, doctors in Japan and China do both the prescribing and the selling of medicine. And guess what? Those doctors tend to prescribe far more drugs than their Western counterparts, who don't share in the pharmacy's profit.

British women tend to have their babies at home; American women tend to deliver in the hospital, but go home a day or two after the birth; Japanese women remain in the hospital with the baby an average of 10 days after delivery. In Britain, Spain, and Italy, the basic rule of medicine is that people never get a doctor's bill; health care is funded through general taxation. But just across the border, in France, patients are expected to make a cash payment for any encounter with the health-care system, even though the insurance plan will reimburse most of that copay within a week or so. The French have decided that people should be reminded on every visit that health care costs money—even if it's the insurance company's money.

In Germany and Austria, health insurance pays for a week at a spa, if a doctor prescribes it to deal with stress. In Britain, when I asked whether the National Health Service would provide the same benefit, my doctor laughed at the very thought of it.

But the most important influence of national culture can be seen in the most basic question facing any country's health-care system: who is covered?

On this fundamental issue, the United States is the odd man out among the world's advanced, free-market democracies. All the other industrialized democracies guarantee health care for everybody—young or old, sick or well, rich or poor, native or immigrant. The U.S.A., the world's richest and most powerful nation, is the only advanced country that has never made a commitment to provide medical care to everyone who needs it.

Our lack of universal coverage has consequences. According to government and private studies, about 22,000 of our fellow Americans die each year of treatable diseases because they lack insurance and can't afford a doctor. This generally happens to people with a chronic illness who have too much money to qualify for Medicaid, but too little to pay for the drugs and treatment they need to stay alive. Among the rich nations, this happens only in America. Likewise, the U.S. is the only developed country where medical bankruptcies can happen.

Those Americans who die or go broke because they happened to get sick represent a basic moral decision our country has made. All the other rich countries have made a different decision: they cover everybody. A French physician, Dr. Valerie Newman, explained it this way: "You Americans say that everybody is equal," she said. "But this is not so. Some are beautiful, some aren't. Some are brilliant, some aren't. But when we get sick—then, yes: everybody is equal. That is something we can deal with on an equal basis. This rule seems so basic to the French: we should all have the same access to care when it comes to life and death."

Other nations adhere to the same principle, with slightly different explanations. For Switzerland—a rich, capitalist country that didn't create a universal health-care system until 1994—the underlying rationale is the concept of solidarité. That's a crucial word in the Swiss vocabulary, freighted with meanings that include "community," "equal treatment," and "despite our differences, we're all in this together."

"To have a great sense of solidarité among the people," former Swiss president Pascal Couchepin told me, "all must have an equal right—and particularly, a right to medical care. Because it is a profound need for people to be sure, if they are struck by the stroke of destiny, they can have a good health system."

That principle seems so obvious to people in Europe, Canada, and the East Asian democracies that health officials asked me over and over to explain why it isn't obvious to Americans as well. "The formula is so simple: health care for everybody, paid for by everybody," a deputy health minister in Sweden told me. "You Americans are so clever. Why haven't you figured that out?"

This formula is so basic in the other industrialized democracies that virtually all of them have included some version of a "right to medical care" in the national constitution. Nearly all European countries (the striking exception is Russia) have signed on to the European Union's Charter of Fundamental Rights, which serves as a sort of continentwide Bill of Rights, enforceable by the courts. "Everyone has the right of access to preventive health care and the right to benefit from medical treatment," the charter says.

The new democracies that have emerged in the two decades since the fall of the Soviet Union generally include a "right to health care" in their constitutions. The Czech Constitution, written in 1992, is typical. "The state is obliged to guarantee the right to life and the right to protection of health, and health care for all," the document declares.

In the U.S., in contrast, neither the federal Constitution nor any state guarantees "health care for all." Some Americans have gone to court claiming a right to care. The legal theory is that our Declaration of Independence says we all have "inalienable rights," including a right to life, and you can't have life without medical care to keep you alive. No U.S. court has ever bought this argument.

In the other advanced democracies, though, there's no debate. All of them recognize a right to "health care for all" as a moral obligation. But they don't all agree on the way to assure that right.

Some nations—Britain, Spain, Italy, and New Zealand, among others—have decided that providing health care is a job for government, just like building roads or putting out fires. In those countries, government owns the hospitals, employs many or most of the doctors, and pays the bills. That seems pretty close to what Americans think of as "socialized medicine."

But many rich democracies—Germany, France, Switzerland, the Netherlands, Japan—provide universal coverage with private doctors, private hospitals, and mainly private insurance plans. Unlike Americans, who switch to government-run insurance (Medicare) at age 65, Germans stick with private insurance from cradle to grave. Japan has more for-profit hospitals than the U.S., and far fewer doctors on the government payroll than we do. This is universal coverage, but it's not socialism.

Some countries—Canada, Taiwan, Australia—have a blended system, with private-sector doctors and hospitals, but a government payment system. The Canadian model—private providers, but public insurance to pay them—is the system Lyndon Johnson copied when he created Medicare in 1965. The difference is that Canada, Taiwan, and Australia provide the public insurance for everybody, while the U.S. restricts it to seniors and the disabled.

In our current debate on health care, many have warned that universal coverage will inevitably lead to "rationing" of health care. The argument overlooks a basic fact: the United States already rations health care. Indeed, every country rations health care, because no system can afford to pay for everything. The key distinction is the way rationing happens.

In the other developed democracies, there's a basic floor of coverage that everybody is entitled to; that's why nobody dies in those nations for lack of care. But there are limits on which procedures and which medications the system will pay for. That's where the rationing kicks in. "We cover everybody, but we don't cover everything," the former British health minister John Reid explained.

In the U.S., in contrast, some people have access to just about everything doctors and hospitals can provide. But others can't even get in the door (until they are sick enough to need emergency care). That amounts to rationing care by wealth. This seems natural to Americans; to the rest of the developed world, it looks immoral.

NUFF SAID.........

This was taken from Master Dave's LJ

  • Sep. 11th, 2009 at 10:32 PM
Leather Laughter Winning
[info]master_dave </b></div>
  The Republicans---often referred to as Repuglicans or Republicicans---say there are death panels in the health-care plans.  The Democrats say there are no death panels.  Both are incorrect.  

Actually, there ARE "death panel"s!  
   There were a couple next door to Me, Jeff and Rita.  Jeff's father got sick from something, and had to go to the hospital.  After his initial work was done, the doctors said he needed to go to Hospital Bee, to get the kind of care he needed.  
   The insurance company sent him to Hospital Aye, instead.  The insurance company kept a lot of health-care money which should have been spent on their client, so Jeff's father died.  Hospital Bee cost more, so the choice was obvious---to the insurance company.  
   Hospital Aye cost less, and Jeff's father's death meant payments were made for less time.  This way, the death of Jeff's father is a profit center, rather than an expense.  
   The insurance company thinks this is a proper way of conducting business, and do so whenever they can.  These are the death panels to which the Republicans---aided by their hate-radio mouthpieces---are referring.  
   The death panels are not in the Democratic plan, so the Republicans are wrong.  The death panels do exist, so the Democrats are wrong.  
   The insurance companies are, of course, murderous profiteers.  They are the most wrong.  

   The hate mongers can say whatever venomous lies they like:  Jeff's father is still dead.  
 
 

An Early Happy Birthday to Mark!!!

  • Sep. 2nd, 2009 at 2:31 PM
Hobbs
Since I won't have computer contract on the 6th of September, here is a early HAPPY BIRTHDAY greeting to a great friend [info]fuzzbearmark 

Hope it is an incredible day.

A Sunday Chuckle......

  • Aug. 30th, 2009 at 12:08 PM
Venerable Grand High Leather
Two old guys were chatting.....

One said to the other:
"My 85th birthday was yesterday. The wife gave me an SUV".

Other guy responded:
"Wow, that's amazing!!..... Imagine, an SUV!!.. What a great gift!"

First guy:
"Yup !!.... Socks, Underwear and Viagra!"

DJ Earworm does Annie Lennox

  • Aug. 29th, 2009 at 12:23 PM
Hobbs

A Celebration of Gary Coulter's Life....

  • Aug. 17th, 2009 at 2:52 PM
Hobbs
July 27, 1969 - August 10, 2009


Arrangements have been finalized.


Calling hours will be
Friday August 21, 2009
from 6-8pm, followed by a short service at 8pm.

Falvo Funeral Home
1395 North Goodman Street
Rochester, NY 14609

 

If you will be attending the service the family has requested

that anyone who wishes should dress in formal leather.  

Donations towards the funeral expenses would be gratefully received.
 

The Obituary was in Sundays Democrat and Chronicle

A celebration of our Leather Brother Gary will continue at the
Bachelor Forum after the Service
with food, song,
and incredible memories.




 

May you rest in peace dear friend........

  • Aug. 10th, 2009 at 8:24 PM
Momma Bear
 It is with a heavy heart that I pass on the news that a very dear friend, leather brother, evil twin and one of the few people that knew all my darkest secrets has passed.

Gary Coulter, a member of the Rochester Rams, a friend of the Leather Community, BearTrader's 2nd boy, and the person that ran the Leather Design and Repair at OUTLandish passed this afternoon in his sleep.

Details are scarce as well as memorial arrangements; I will pass on any details as they come available.

"Time has passed, the Wheel has turned. It is time for you Gary to move on. You will walk hand in hand with the Lord and Lady and with your ancestors who came before you. Great Mother, welcome Gary back into your womb. And Great Father welcome him back into your divine instruction. Let him come to you and know that he has been blessed by your gracious gift of Life. Let him come into your Divine Love, and let him know that he has left behind a life of legacy... that he shall be remembered and loved. As he enters your world, wrap him in your loving arms, and welcome him back home. Let him speak to the Ancient Ones and to learn the greater mysteries that lie beyond the veil. Give him the strength to take these final steps, and allow him to do so with peace and dignity. Those of us left behind shall indeed mourn his death, but we shall also know that his Soul and Spirit is coming back to Holy Mother and Holy Father, and that he shall be made whole again. We shall cry, but we shall also laugh, for we shall celebrate the Life that had been given to Gary.  And let him also know that as we now merry part, that we shall also merry meet again. And we now, with these candles lit, respect the flame of Gary's life, and though these candle flames shall die out, we know that Gary shall live on, and his flame shall never cease to burn, and we also know that he shall be reborn anew. Take him by the hand and guide him back into your heart, for this is what is right and just. Let him walk unerringly down the path that leads to your Love. This is our will and so mote it be. 

Amen and Amen." 

--Crimson Peaceful Wolf 

Question of the moment.........

  • Jul. 24th, 2009 at 10:09 PM
Sir Boy Survival
Is it worth the gamble of losing everything in order to search for a love that takes your breath away??

July 16th, 2009

  • Jul. 16th, 2009 at 8:50 AM
Momma Bear
Today would have been Mom and Dad's 57th Wedding Anniversary; shame Momma was called home too soon.   I have to call Dad later; I know he will be thinking about her and missing her even more than I am.

Love ya Ma.........xoxoxoxoxox 
Fucking Do

General Daily Horoscope

The Moon's entry into rash Aries begins a new emotional cycle once again. We are not interested in looking back now; rather, we anticipate what's coming next. Mental Mercury's conjunction with the Sun creates an insatiable need for interaction as we place ourselves in our own stories. Meanwhile, Mars muddles our boundaries as it forms an annoying quincunx with passionate Pluto. We must use our common sense to prevent an awkward social situation.

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
The excitement starts all over again today, but even you have your limits. You might be tired of starting anew one more time, yet you don't really have much leeway other than to do what's expected. It's complicated though since an annoying quincunx between unrelenting Mars and Pluto makes it hard to know how effective your actions are now. Even so, don't let self-doubt slow you down.
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You are able to combine your natural common sense with a high level of sensitivity today, allowing you to start a discussion about an uncomfortable topic. Don't worry if you don't know where the conversation will lead. For now, that's not your problem. Just get the ball rolling and then be as flexible as you can. Breaking through the silence is a positive step, even if the issue remains unresolved.
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Gemini Horoscope (May 21 - Jun 20)
The summer Sun passes between your key planet Mercury and the Earth today, intensifying your thoughts and your willpower. This can add weight to anything you say, so choose your words wisely. Be careful about talking off the top of your head, for impulsive declarations might offend someone and create more drama than you are seeking.
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Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 - Jul 22)
Don't let someone bully you into doing more than you can, for you might take on other people's concerns too easily now. Offering to help another person out of a bind is certainly admirable, but he or she could expect too much from you, and over-committing can leave you exhausted at the end of the day. You can still show your compassion; just remember that you cannot save anyone else unless you also save something for yourself.
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You want your friends to know your exact position on an important subject. Additionally, you would love their support and hope they understand your next move. And as clear as you are about your plans, you are tired of having to tell everyone what you're doing and wish they could just figure it out for themselves. It's not an all-or-nothing proposition; keep your options open and readjust the intensity with which you communicate as needed.
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Your ruling planet Mercury is illuminated by the light of the Sun, giving you the power to say exactly what you mean. Unfortunately, your actions may not be in alignment with your intentions now. You may have all the words down pat, but then exhibit a lack of finesse executing your plan. A smart strategy is to speak your piece based upon your careful thinking. Then, set logic aside and do what feels right in your heart.
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You want to base your decisions on finding a harmonious balance between two divergent positions. Fairness is important, but it's challenging when one person is so insistent that his or her way is the only way. Even if you are in agreement, you tend to lean toward the other side to help balance the situation. Once you accept that you won't be the only arbiter of the situation, you'll be able to let go of control and things will unfold as they should.
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Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
Your two ruling planets, aggressive Mars and domineering Pluto, are in a difficult quincunx aspect today, challenging you to be less forceful than you actually feel. Managing your intensity becomes more important than ever, for not everyone has the ability to match your depth. As you know, this is both a blessing and a curse. There's no reason to be afraid of your own emotions; however, it's a good idea to respect the boundaries of those who are.
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Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
It's frustrating for you when you want to get beneath the surface and explore a meaningful subject today, especially if someone else doesn't understand what you're talking about. Others may be well intended, but they don't seem to be able to slow down enough to contemplate what's truly important. If someone close to you seems distracted by every little thing, this is a sign for you to retreat. Instead of pushing for a deeper connection now, relaxing your agenda can make room for intimacy to happen more naturally later on.
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Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
People at work can get on your nerves today because they don't do what's expected of them. Expressing your anger, however, isn't constructive. It doesn't motivate them to get on track, nor does it make you feel any better, either. Controlling your feelings now is tricky business, for suppressed emotions can have unexpected consequences. The smartest course of action is to tell others how you feel without placing blame on them.
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Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
You can share what's in your heart today without actually becoming hooked by your own words. Your ability to remain detached from your feelings is, however, a mixed blessing. You may be able to talk about them in an objective manner, but your actions could appear overstated. It's better to take time and connect with your emotions than to unconsciously act them out.
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Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
It's often challenging for you to establish boundaries, but now it's even more complicated because your feelings seem so logical. Caution is advised, for emotions are not rational although you believe that you can justify your actions based upon them. Impulsive behavior can lead you to the edge of uncertainty. Be smart and move slowly even if your thinking is as fast as lightning.
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General Daily Horoscope

The Moon's entry into conceptual Aquarius at 11:03 am EDT raises issues about the relationship between our personal lives and the larger world. We set aside our individual dramas to consider how we fit into our family, community, and even the world. Meanwhile, contemplative Mercury forms a busy sesquisquare with philosophical Jupiter and imaginative Neptune, encouraging us to ponder global issues, without necessarily finding any particular solutions.

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
You become less concerned with what you must do today as your mind gravitates toward the big picture. Often you are the champion of concentrating on the present moment, but now you are looking ahead and thinking about what's around the next corner. However, this doesn't mean you have to make any decisions about the future as long as you are actively considering all your options.
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Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 - May 20)
You may be required to focus your attention on a work-related matter, but you really don't want to put in too much effort on much of anything today. Unfortunately, you might not be able to slow your mind down enough to truly relax, yet it's still a smart idea to schedule some downtime. You'll need some energy in reserve for when things pick up this weekend.
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Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 - Jun 20)
Life in general seems easier for you today, even if all your unresolved issues remain the same. But you don't have to worry about them for a while and that can ease the tension enough so you can enjoy the present moment. Nevertheless, you must be careful that your imagination doesn't carry you too far away now or you could miss the love that is right in front of you.
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Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 - Jul 22)
You may be in a peculiar state of mind today as you become aware of how isolated you feel, even if you have close family and friends. There are parts of your life that you choose to keep to yourself and your secrecy adds distance between you and others. But you may also be in touch with an inner strength that makes you feel good about the choices you have made. Put your quiet confidence to work by making another difficult decision that you have been postponing.
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Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 - Aug 22)
The Moon's entry into your 7th House of Relationships today can shift the focus from what you are doing to observing everyone else in your life. Meanwhile, the Jupiter-Chiron-Neptune superconjunction continues to place a distortion filter between you and your partners that makes everything seem larger than life. You cannot rely on anyone else to objectively tell you what's really happening now. Stop and listen to what's in your heart.
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Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 - Sep 22)
It's natural for you to work hard until you get the job done, but closure may be tough to find today. It may even seem as if your goals slip further away the more you apply yourself. Of course, the answer isn't to give up; it's to accept the timing that reality is imposing on you now. Don't panic if something remains unfinished; just do what you can to the best of your ability without worrying too much about the ultimate goal.
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Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 - Oct 22)
You have all kinds of creative ideas running around in your head today and it's up to you to figure out how to express some of them. Unfortunately, your brilliant concepts may not have anything to do with your current responsibilities. But don't get discouraged; work extra hard to fulfill your obligations and then take whatever time you can to make contact with your inner child for some spontaneous self-expression.
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Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
The Moon's entry into your 4th House of Roots can take you back to your childhood, but don't let memories of your past get in the way of creating your future. You may be longing for an idyllic life, sipping champagne and watching a glorious sunset, but those bucolic dreams seem very far away right now. There's some heavy metaphysical lifting to be done today as you think about the cosmos and what you can do to change the world for the better.
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Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
There are so many things to keep you busy today that it really doesn't matter much where you begin. But don't procrastinate or you'll be in trouble at the end of the day when you realize you should have started sooner. Exuberant Jupiter is in the spotlight, magnifying your good intentions, but it's up to you to work on your follow-through.
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Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
You might try to resist being swept up in a whirlwind of activity today because you know that it's more important to do one thing right than many things haphazardly. But staying on point could take extra concentration now, for someone might have a different idea of how you should spend your time. You will do okay if you remember to use your common sense in all your conversations or they will lure you out to the impractical but fascinating edges of the cosmos. Keep it real no matter what comes your way.
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Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
The Moon returns to your sign today for her regular monthly visit to remind you that you must acknowledge your feelings, even if you're more comfortable in the rational world. It's easy for you to depersonalize a situation and that can be very healthy, allowing you to move through experiences and quickly learn your lessons from them. But now it's time to slow down and let your body, not your mind, tell you what you need to know.
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Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
You may be weary of sharing so much emotional intensity. Or, perhaps, you just long for a vacation from your own romantic attachments. Either way, the Moon's entry into your private 12th House today amplifies your need to be alone or to keep your feelings to yourself. Don't worry about how others might respond to your desire for solitude. They will be happier once you return from your little retreat more relaxed and refreshed.
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